"...Search yourselves--the tongue is an unruly member--hold your tongues about things of no moment--a little tale will set the world on fire."
OK, so I have been having some devil flattering going on in my life. I have had a hard time holding my tongue. I have had that self-righteous feeling and I don't like it. I have had to really examine myself to see what my problem is. I finally figured it out. I am jealous. My 'friend' knows how to maximize her resources and I either don't know how or I want to make myself a martyr by doing everything myself. I need to get over it and learn from her instead of criticize her for being able to delegate authority.
Get over it Mary!